Acknowledging your need for healing is courageous. Your recovery isn't dependent on the alcoholic's choices; it's your right.
Education: Understand addiction, codependency, and effects of alcoholism on family.
Setting Healthy Boundaries: Essential for self-protection. Clearly state what you will/won't tolerate. Be consistent. (e.g., "I won't discuss this while you're drinking.")
Detaching with Love: Release control, focus on your well-being.
Support Groups: Al-Anon Family